Worried that your parent might need more support at home—but not sure where to start? You’re not alone.
For many families, deciding on home care is emotional, uncertain, and sometimes overwhelming. The question “How Many Hours of Home Care Does My Elderly Parent Need?” doesn’t always come with a clear answer. That’s okay. Every family, every home, every individual is different.
At In-Home Care, we talk to people like you every day—daughters, sons, partners—just trying to do what’s best. This guide is here to gently walk you through the key things to think about, so you can find a care plan that feels right for everyone involved.
What Does a Normal Day Look Like?
Take a moment to think through your parent’s typical day. Are they getting dressed and moving around without much help? Are they remembering to take their medication on time? Preparing meals and eating properly? Staying safe around the home?
If most things are under control, a little support might go a long way—perhaps just a morning or evening visit. But if they’re forgetting things, skipping meals, or having trouble getting around, it could be time to consider more frequent help.
Is Safety a Concern?
Safety concerns are one of the biggest reasons families reach out for support. Some signs it might be time for more structured care include recent falls or close calls, doors being left unlocked, appliances left on, or memory issues that are becoming more noticeable. Even if they haven’t had an accident yet, trust your instincts. If something feels off, that’s valid—and worth acting on.
How Is Their Health?
Chronic illnesses, recent hospital stays, or mobility problems can make daily tasks harder. If they’re struggling to stand, wash, dress, get in and out of bed, or manage medications, they may benefit from care more than once a day. Even someone who’s fine for part of the day may still need scheduled support to stay safe and comfortable.
Do They Feel Lonely?
Many older people live alone and go days without meaningful interaction. A short visit from a carer—even just to chat, help with lunch, or go for a walk—can have a huge impact on their mood and wellbeing. Companionship care can be just as important as physical support.
A Simple Guide to Care Hours
Here’s a general idea of how care hours often break down:
- 6 to 10 hours a week: Ideal for mostly independent people who need help with housework, shopping, or light meal prep.
- 14 to 28 hours a week: A good option for those who need daily support with things like getting dressed, eating, or remembering medication.
- 35+ hours a week: Suitable for those who need ongoing help throughout the day, often due to memory issues or physical limitations.
- Overnight care: Best for individuals who wake frequently at night and need help going to the toilet or getting safely back to bed.
- Live-in care: The right choice when someone needs consistent, around-the-clock support due to dementia, frailty, or ongoing medical needs.
When Is 24-Hour Care the Right Fit?
Round-the-clock care may be the best option if your parent is waking often at night and can’t manage on their own, is prone to wandering or confusion (especially in the evening), needs regular help with meals, hygiene, or medications, or has recently been in hospital and is no longer safe to be alone.
24-hour care offers peace of mind. Someone is always there to help—no matter what time it is.
Care Needs Change Over Time
It’s completely normal for care needs to shift. You might start with a few short visits each week, then increase hours over time. Or your parent may need more intensive support after an illness, then scale back again. We work closely with families to make adjustments as things evolve. Our care is flexible, responsive, and built around your loved one’s changing needs.
Let’s Talk It Through
If you’re unsure how much care your parent needs, we’re here to help. At In-Home Care, we offer personalised support across Waterlooville, Havant & Petersfield, Cheshire & St Helens, Beaconsfield, Basingstoke, Chelmsford & Ipswich, Fareham & Portsmouth, Haslemere, and Chichester.
Call us today for a friendly chat. We’ll help you figure out what’s right—for your parent, and for you.
